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相信很多人都聽過「最後十四堂星期二的課」這本書，它的原文書名是"Tuesdays with Morrie"。
說實在的，它的中文書名並不是特別吸引我，所以也從沒想過去看它。
倒是如同這本書一樣，作者米奇‧艾爾邦的另外一本著作「在天堂遇見的五個人」也是挺有名氣的暢銷書。
總之，也算是難得的因緣，朋友推薦並且借了這本書的原文版給我看。
斷斷續續花了不算短的時間，總算是把它給看完了。儘管我並沒有特別喜歡這個作者寫作的風格，
不過裡面倒是有著不少Morrie充滿智慧且發人深省，用生命寫下的人生哲理。
在這邊把我喜歡的一些句子摘錄下來，也讓有緣可以看到的朋友參考參考囉！
(因為缺乏前後文的關係，有些或許會有點莫名其妙，不過反正我是寫給自己看的，看不懂的就自動跳過吧
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）1. "Love wins. Love always wins."
2. "The most important thing in life is to learn how to give out love, and to let it come in."
"Love is the only rational act."
3. "Sometimes you cannot believe what you see, you have to believe what you feel.
And if you are ever going to have other people trust you,
you must feel that you can trust them, too -- even when you're in the dark.
Even when you're falling."
4. "Everyone knows they are going to die, but nobody believes it.
If we did, we would do things differently."
5. "Once you learn how to die, you learn how to live."
6. "There are a few rules I know to be true about love and marriage:
If you don't respect the other person, you're gonna have a lot of trouble.
If you don't know how to compromise, you're gonna have a lot of trouble.
If you can't talk openly about what goes on between you, you're gonna have a lot of trouble.
And if you don't have a common set of values in life, you're gonna have a lot of trouble.
Your values must be alike. And the biggest one of those values -- Your belief in the importance of your marriage."
7. "Be compassionate, and take responsibility for each other.
If we only learned those lessons, this world would be so much better a place."
"Love each other or die (perish)"
8. "There is no formula to relationships. They have to be negotiated in loving ways, with room for both parties,
what they want and what they need, what they can do and what their life is like."
9. "Love is when you are as concerned about someone else's situation as you are about your own."
最後，看到Morrie對於生不生小孩這回事有著跟我類似的見解，讓我讀到時不禁沾沾自喜了一番：
10. "There is no experience like having children. That's all. There is no substitute for it.
You cannot do it with a friend. You cannot do it with a lover.
If you want the experience of having complete responsibility for another human being,
and to learn how to love and bond in the deepest way, then you should have children."
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